tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948117492116997244.post3839384426582556773..comments2023-10-30T10:19:13.446+00:00Comments on Daydreamer: Happy Anniversary?Ray Barneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09209429097744326143noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948117492116997244.post-23769836527375807552015-03-03T14:19:47.328+00:002015-03-03T14:19:47.328+00:00Well done. It really is not all about celebrating...Well done. It really is not all about celebrating with dancing and clashing of cymbals is it?Ray Barneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09209429097744326143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948117492116997244.post-5046656167071941302015-03-03T12:31:55.466+00:002015-03-03T12:31:55.466+00:00Your John and mine sound like they had a lot in co...Your John and mine sound like they had a lot in common, Ray. :-) We don't make a big thing of anniversaries and birthdays, mainly because he usually forgets unless reminded. But we're still happily married after nearly 47 years.Perpetuahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01214396019726161983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948117492116997244.post-39950297329615972412015-03-02T22:34:56.067+00:002015-03-02T22:34:56.067+00:00Thanks Freda. Often I don't know what I'm...Thanks Freda. Often I don't know what I'm going to write until it has written itself and am taken by surprise by the memories that surface.Ray Barneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09209429097744326143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948117492116997244.post-18192875547246388392015-03-02T18:55:00.079+00:002015-03-02T18:55:00.079+00:00An anniversary is always special. Thank you for sh...An anniversary is always special. Thank you for sharing thoughts of yours and of your time with John. Every BlessingFredahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12112672598946758847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948117492116997244.post-28417452212533636222015-03-02T14:43:13.286+00:002015-03-02T14:43:13.286+00:00Some time soonish Jane. Just have to be in the ri...Some time soonish Jane. Just have to be in the right mindset,<br />Hope all is well in your world :-}Ray Barneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09209429097744326143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948117492116997244.post-27479710860660267222015-03-02T07:45:42.097+00:002015-03-02T07:45:42.097+00:00I'd love to hear about your wedding Ray x, thi...I'd love to hear about your wedding Ray x, thinking of you xJane D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02571647840432446028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948117492116997244.post-43186137414590919202015-02-28T16:17:27.813+00:002015-02-28T16:17:27.813+00:00Thanks Jean, though the actual wedding day was qui...Thanks Jean, though the actual wedding day was quite another story. I feel a future blog coming on. :-)Ray Barneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09209429097744326143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948117492116997244.post-32844196972780114442015-02-28T15:45:07.957+00:002015-02-28T15:45:07.957+00:00Happy anniversary Ray......it's still the anni...Happy anniversary Ray......it's still the anniversary of your wedding and should be appreciated as well as celebrated! I'm sure John shares it with you! XxxRevjeanrolthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12744131101249601856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948117492116997244.post-15469285910247662292015-02-28T08:49:26.966+00:002015-02-28T08:49:26.966+00:00It is good that you are largely content now and as...It is good that you are largely content now and as you say good friends are so important.Susan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14400003572211042194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948117492116997244.post-62212562500512977002015-02-28T07:54:14.499+00:002015-02-28T07:54:14.499+00:00I'm happy for you that you have found someone ...I'm happy for you that you have found someone to share the good moments with you.<br />As my 80th birthday gets daily nearer I find I don't need a close <br /><br /><br /><br />companion any longer<br />Immediately after John's death I felt overwhelmed with loneliness but <br />theses days am largely content with friends in church and my neighbours. That doesn't mean that anniversaries no longer register.<br />We all need something to celebrate and I celebrate good friends.Ray Barneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09209429097744326143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948117492116997244.post-8427026546242121962015-02-28T03:17:38.822+00:002015-02-28T03:17:38.822+00:00Happy Anniversary.
Our 44th was last year. Max w...Happy Anniversary.<br /><br />Our 44th was last year. Max was never good at celebrating anniversaries, birthdays or Christmas. Now, in his state of dementia it means nothing so I do not mention these things as it would go right over his head. The new man in my life likes to celebrate but more with thought than expense. Valentines day I was given a small vase with two red roses (all he could find in his garden. This was just what I wanted as I much prefer that to some bought flowers - it is the thought and time taken to do something that is far more important.<br /><br />I know I am so lucky to have a second chance even though I know it may never lead to marriage and living together. We are just happy with what God has seen fit to give us both.Susan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14400003572211042194noreply@blogger.com